fourplay.me
Get closer, one question at a time.
Answer the same question in private, then compare. Every difference is something new to learn about each other.
How it plays
Invite your partner
Send them a link and play together, on the sofa or miles apart. Every game picks a theme, from playful to spicy.
Put 4 answers in order
Drag them into your order. You've got 60 seconds, and there's no right answer.
Compare and talk
Once you've both answered, see your orders side by side, with a question to help you talk about where you differ.
Not just ranking
Mind Reader
Guess your partner's exact order.
Red flag or not?
Tap each answer green, yellow or red.
Wildcards and Snap!
Coin-toss spins, and a bonus card when you match exactly.
What makes you feel most loved?
- Being toldHearing it out loud, unprompted.
- Quality timeTheir full attention, phone away.
- A proper hugHeld, no reason needed.
- A little surpriseProof they were thinking of me.
Where you differ most: being told. It's your 1st and your partner's 4th.
💬 Talk about it
When did you last feel properly loved by the other one, and did they know?
Not a compatibility test. Nobody wins or loses. You just understand each other better.
Go as deep as you dare
Over 800 cards, from playful to profound. Start light and go as deep as you both want.
- Easy & Playful
- Personal
- Reflective
- Vulnerable
- Deep
- Profound
- After Dark 👀Explicit · unlocks when you both say yes
Pull up a chair
Play free